At present, the rate of divorce and remarriage has increased both the
number of people entering the role of stepfather has also increased.
Because there are so many aspects to be taken into the care of parents
in general, so that has developed around different aspects of parenting
step. Here are five tips to successfully carry out its role as a
stepfather.
Tip 1 - The children who buy out of
wedlock and have mom and dad may be the second or third in the
sequence. The earlier parents have established their own rules in the
lives of children. As a mom or dad happened to be better for kids
increasingly accept existing standards instead of imposing new rules on
children. This will provide continuity and consistency in the lives of
children in its wake.
Tip 2 - It gets very hard for
children to move to call mom or dad because mom and dad already. They
also know who are not their real parents. You should encourage children
to step call you by your name to be comfortable in front of you.
Tip 3 - It is better to clear the way with children - how to introduce
to others? If you do not mind introducing them as "my children" or that
they want their introduction as the daughter of "pass" or "stepchild."
Not distinguish children step unless you do insist.
Tip 4 - If you really want to develop good relationships with their
children, the step does not make mistakes to degrade their parents and
especially in front of their children. Children are already facing
hostile conditions step in a new environment will become more defensive
and less communicative.
Tip 5 - Many children of the
way when it comes to capturing the attention of their parents are in a
position to fight. The parents of newlyweds are going through the
honeymoon phase and feel neglected stepchild. You as a parent step
should support children to spend time with both parents to make them
feel that you are not their enemy.