As a parent, feelings of fear, concern and hope is very obvious to your
children, the same feeling you find when you are a parent step,
however, a stepparent is much more difficult than being a parent. The
reasons for this are many, but here are five important steps for
success, even as a stepfather. This is what we can do to have good
relationship with the children of your steps.
First
Step - Unlike adults, children step are not able to rationalize their
feelings and think that you are responsible for all the hell that their
parents have gone through. Step children have seen a horrible in the
process of divorce of their parents and feel like you're trying to take
the place of his father or mother. All you can do in this situation is
give your children time step and work with patience to build
relationships.
Step Two - Every relationship needs
time to build their relationship with stepchildren is no different. Do
not force things on the children of your steps and do not give enough
time and space to children on his way to feel comfortable and adapt to
the new situation. Once the stepchild reached such a stage will be
easier to create the link into your relationship.
Step Three - Create a sense among the children in their step that they
are always there if you need. Their willingness to help children in
their path by any means will create a big impact toward building
positive relationships.
Step Four - As the days go by
when your step children to see how they have made their parents happy,
thinking you're a bad person that gradually give way to thoughts that
you are a good person. At the time the children of your step this sense
the bond between you and the children step will be stronger.
Step Five - The ultimate step children will realize that it is safe to
engage with you, while being a stepfather. This forms the basis of
long-term relationship.
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