Adolescent is a time when one person is in the process of becoming
independent. As a parent of the whole situation is very confusing as
you will find many cases of identity clashes and loss of control over
their teen. This is a stage where perseverance and a lot of patients is
the need for an hour. Here are 5 tips to help parents of teenagers.
Tip 1 - All these years of your child's birth until the time (age
teenager), you as parents had control of the conditions of his son, but
now as a teenager to try to get rid of that control, which is part very
natural growing. You do not have to feel bad. Retaliation your child
with things not to his liking will be very normal and frequent.
Tip 2 - Growth adolescents tend to take more and more control of their
lives. This can lead to feelings of rejection in you. As a responsible
parent you need to know and do what everyone is required to make your
child more responsible and independent individual.
Tip 3 -
Despite trying to take control of their lives, young children want
their ever lasting support, love without end, a better understanding
and ultimate freedom. In their journey to adulthood will require their
continuous guidance and support.
Tip 4 - There is tremendous
peer pressure by the pressure to succeed academically. The internal
battle within the needs of adolescents to their parents to believe in
them. Any feeling that hurt, and criticism leads to crisis and while
the teens turn to their parents, but this will happen if you as a
parent has a right kind of relationship with their children.
Tip
5 - Listen patiently to their children, listening to their children
does not mean they have accepted everything said it also shows that you
have an attitude to understand their teenagers.